35 Jacob wrestles with Jesus

Please read Gen 32: 1-32 beforehand

 Jacob sees a host of angels

Jacob’s confrontation with Laban and his brothers was, mercifully, now something of the past, but such a conflict renders one emotionally depleted and the meeting with Esau was still coming.  For that reason, his Heavenly Father thought it well to open his eyes so as to see the host of angels that had continually been following and protecting him, as he was travelling the heavenly road down below.

Angels are of course invisible spiritual beings, but are able to appear to man in whichever form best fit for the occasion.  To Abraham they had appeared in human form (Gen 18), but here, to Jacob, they manifested as an army of heavenly beings (32:1,2) to encourage him, letting him know that Esau would not be contending with his small group of people only, but with a heavenly host of mighty angels.  For that reason Jacob called that place Mahanaim, “Two camps”: Jacob’s small camp consisting of his people and livestock and God’s greater camp of angelic beings. (See also Ps 34:7; 91:11; Heb 1:14 and 2 Kings 6:17).  When we are under way at God’s command, we are continually under the protection of the Almighty.

(A text which the Lord often gave me, is Heb 13:5, “I will in no way leave you, neither will I in any way forsake you.” WEB.)

 Bad news: Esau is on the warpath and heading your way

Jacob then sent messengers ahead of his laager to prepare Esau for his return to Canaan.  He possibly also wanted to let him know that he had accrued an abundance of property and was not on his way to lay claim to his heritage, which he had left behind.  Esau had, in the meantime settled in the region of Seir, later known as Edom.

The messengers returned within a very short while, bearing the unsettling news that Esau had already come to know about Jacob’s return (possibly from travelling merchants) and was on his way to meet him, accompanied by 400 men (32:3-6). 

That definitely was not a welcoming party.  Esau had nurtured the grudge for the injustice he suffered because of Jacob for 20 long years and just hearing his name mentioned, caused a burning urge for retribution to flame up within his heart.  At that time, he had sworn that he would kill him and now the opportunity to do so, had come.  He was out to crush him.

(Family grudges and feuds sometimes run for many generations; also between tribes and nations and many innocent people of later generations who hardly know anything about the original quarrel, suffer because of it.)

 Hoping for the best but preparing for the worst

Notwithstanding the vision of the host of angels that were continually accompanying and protecting him, Jacob was overcome by anxiety on receiving this upsetting news.  Right away he divided his camp into two laagers and let them encamp out of sight of one-another so that, should Esau destroy the one camp, the other would at least be spared.  At that, his clever human devised plans like wrapping the skins of kids around his arms and laying of branches in the troughs, dried up. Only One could deliver him from this dilemma and so he turned to God in prayer.

 A petition that makes sense

He based his petition on three grounds:

  • That God was the God of Abraham (The God Who had made certain promises to Abraham and Who could not break them).
  • That he, Jacob, was not returning to Canaan (and to Esau) by his own accord, but was doing so at God’s command.
  • Thirdly that the Lord had also made personal promises of protection and blessing to him at Bethel and that He had kept His promises and everything which he (Jacob) now owned, was given him by God;  why then would the Lord now allow him to be stripped of all these things, including his life; that would not make sense.

God so much appreciates it when we lay before Him irrefutable truths and well-grounded arguments, flowing from a humble heart as seen in his words, “I am too unworthy for all the goodness and mercy which you had shown to your servant …. .“ In other words, “Lord, my plea rests on righteousness, yet I am pleading that You will do it for me by grace”.

 Wave upon wave of heart-softeners

After having spoken to God, Jacob did whatever was practically within his reach by sending ahead peace offerings to show his submission and regret, hoping to soften Esau’s heart (32:13-21) and what a multitude of presents he sent!  It was not just a half-hearted show, but a convincing flood of benevolence. 

Sometimes we have to pay a huge price to make peace with others or to keep peace with them.  We then do what we can and trust God to do that which we cannot.

 A spiritual battle fought in human strength

When evening fell, Jacob let his wives, children and other people cross through the Jabbok, but he remained behind – probably to have a further period of uninterrupted prayer. 

Then something incredible happened.  Suddenly a man emerged from the darkness and lay hold of him.  He had no weapon in his hand, therefore seemingly, his intention was not to kill him forthwith; he wrestled with him as if he wanted to overpower him physically. 

Jacob must have been totally taken by surprise.  What was the intention of this stranger’s attack?   There however was no time to be spent on thought, for he had to defend himself with all his might.  Jacob  probably was strong and hardened, used to protect his sheep against onslaughts  from both man and animal and did not only resist him, but tried to overpower him,  bring his attack to an end and compel him to give a reason for his behaviour.  But it was not as easy as that, because the more vehemently Jacob fought, the more power his attacker put in to resisting him, so that it became an evenly matched struggle that continued hour by hour.

As the struggle raged, Jacob must have kept on asking himself what then could the reason be for this meaningless attack and gradually the truth dawned on him that his opponent was no ordinary man, but a heavenly being and that the wrestling match between them, was a combat for life and death which was somehow linked to his conflict with Esau; if he would be able to overcome this man, he would also be able to overcome Esau; if not, Esau would gain the victory. It was a matter of life and death.

Towards daybreak Jacob was at last gradually gaining the upper hand over the stranger. Realizing this, his opponent requested him to let him go for the day was dawning. 

Jacob, now` in control of the fight, but also totally convinced that the visitor was from heaven, refused to do so but cashed in on the opportunity to compel Him to bless him, before He would release him. 

This was a totally new turn of events which the Stranger could not allow, so, applying His supernatural power, He hit Jacob so hard on his hip bone, that it went out of joint.

 The power of the flesh is broken, and the Spirit takes over in fighting the battle

Suddenly the odds were reversed.  In great pain and with only one leg to support him, Jacob realized that he had lost.  But now it was abundantly clear to him that  this wrestling  match was orchestrated by God and that he had to overcome this Man and compel Him to bless him, or else Esau would overcome him the next day and would destroy everything that was dear to him.  But he could no longer overpower him because his manly power was totally broken.  He was now desperate but did not give up on the wrestling match; he only changed his strategy. 

While clinging helplessly to his Opponent to support himself, he cried and pleaded (Hos 12:4) to bless him, because without that blessing, he would not survive.  His physical battle had changed into a spiritual battle of faith. He was clinging like a drowning man to the Person that could save him.  The Stranger then asked him what his name was and when he acknowledged that it was “Deceiver” (Jacob) He blessed him spiritually by giving him a new character which He described by the name, “Israel” (Contender with God) because he had wrestled with man and with God and had gained the victory.

 A spiritual victory: a new man emerges

What had really happened here?  God had used Jacob’s conflict with Esau to bring him to a point of complete brokenness; a total distrust in his own ability to promote his life by means of manipulation and deceit, and a complete trust in God to manage his life for his own good. 

This probably was the most important moment in Jacob’s life and a glorious victory for God’s grace and wisdom to lay lame the sinful character of man so that, by His Holy Spirit, he could ascend to the throne of his heart transforming him into a new being that would display the character of the Heavenly King, his Father. 

A trembling deceiver had knelt in the dark of night on the near side of the Jabbok and a victorious soldier of God had walked out on the other side in triumph the next morning. 

Jacob’s greatest need was not to be delivered from the hand of Esau: that the angels could have done for him in the twinkling of an eye, but to be freed of his old Adamic nature that had given rise to his conflict with Esau, that was his problem.  Now Jacob reached a new crest in his spiritual development that would lead to a worthy, dignified patriarch for God’s people, Israel.

(Irrespective of the matter for which we are praying, God lays hold of every moment during which we are in intimate contact with Him, to change us into His image.)

 By way of elucidation:

  1. In Old Testament times, the Angel of the Lord (the Lord Jesus Christ in the New Testament) sometimes appeared to people in humanly form to give them instructions, to encourage them and to make promises to them. That this Man was God Himself (the Son of God) is confirmed by the fact that He had blessed Jacob and that Jacob himself declared it (32:26-30). (See also Hos 12:5).
  2. This physical struggle of the Man with Jacob, was to him an extremely unique experience, but also reveals to us to what lengths God is willing to go and how much time He is willing to devote to us, even entering into battle with us, to cleanse our unholy characters.
  3. The Angel had of course limited His power to afford Jacob, by way of a physical struggle, the opportunity of coming to the point of realizing his total inability to cope with the challenges of life, but also of reaching a new peak in his faith in the power and love of God.
  4. The human beings over which Jacob had gained victory by faith, were possibly, primarily, Laban and his brothers and Esau, the next day.
  5. When God starts a new spiritual work in a person’s life, He often begins with the physical or material aspects, and from there proceeds to the spiritual level. Hard and fearful circumstances are often good to prepare the heart for a deeper work by the Holy Spirit.
  6. The Lord, the Omnipotent, can overcome us in the blink of an eye but does not do so; no, He affords us just sufficient resistance that we may fight ourselves to exhaustion in our rebellion against Him. Then, when we are gasping for breath in our endeavour to have our own will, He graciously delivers us from this inner force (or law, as Paul calls it) with one blow. He sets us free from this sinful power that is causing us, and those that surround us, so much pain and distress.  In that moment we learn to cleave to the Lord Jesus, then we cry out and plead, and suddenly experience a deliverance we had never known before.

In summary:  The blessing for which Jacob was fighting and received that night, although he did not realize that at that stage, was primarily the breaking of the power of self (of his own will) and the imparting of the ability to allow God to let His will and Spirit rule his life.  The old nature would henceforth limp and the new nature in Christ would lead. 

From this new position of authority, he would be able to meet Esau in humility but without fear.  Jacob had now laid down the weapon of deceit and had taken up the weapons of the Spirit which Esau would not be able to withstand.

Are you and I willing to do likewise; spending a night or nights in wrestling with Jesus to be delivered from the power of your old nature and to proceed into the future in His power?



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